3.4.14

poetry exercise

if I am a pair of legs
then the cloud whose shadow
blots out the piebald face of the mountain
is nothing but a choke of air

the frozen blackberry I ate
no more than a needling seed gone fat

if I am a pair of legs
then my mother must have the rest of me

8.3.14

sentries


The ravens in Southern California perch stonily atop telephone poles, black marble busts on their wooden plinths, and let perfectly round ping-pong chirps roll off their black tongues on down to the street below.

They are black wolves in flight. They crane their necks to pierce the blue above our heads with their long hooked snouts shining like black jade in that dry and airy sea.

All the while I stand dumbly below them. There's one for every dusty block, each a sentry with a full and curling beard and a black curtain of wing-feathers draped about her chest. Each a perfect shade of pitch.

8.2.14

sea upon sea

Amoeba Records on a rainy mid-week afternoon in Los Angeles: one of the only idiosyncratic experiences I've found to come close those of Brooklyn and Manhattan. Those infinite snaking subway rides with book in hand, a bodega on every block with Goya cans on shelves and chia-infused kombucha in sliding-glass refrigerators. Conspicuously homeless chessmen and hula-hoopers in Washington Square Park.

I don't suppose it's difficult to tell I am missing it.

On Saturday mornings like this one, where I wake up late (8:36 AM) after returning (1:52 AM) from a night out dancing and feel as fatigued as if I had never slept at all, I settle down into the discomfort of not really wanting to do anything. No, I don't really want to finish that draft right now. No, I'm not going for a run yet. Eventually.

I've gone and forgotten the damn coffee. Eighteen minutes stewing in its own acidic juices in the french press. Well, I will not waste it all. Just a little cup. After all, I am only just returning to drinking it, after months of plastic "illness" that led me to further demonize coffee along with bananas, peanut butter, wheat, red wine, pillows, the couch, and consciousness itself. Really only the keyed-up version of consciousness, the one split multiple and over-invested in a hundred directions. As suspicious as it is messianic.

Well, the coffee's not utterly ruined, if it's any consolation.

Increasingly I've been thinking of Stanley Kubrick. Imagine my surprise when I came upon a chapter in Jon Ronson's Lost At Sea titled "Stanley Kubrick's Boxes." Putting aside my unease about journalists plundering Stanley's horde, cabinets, barn-stables, and folders (all the while making me an accessory to the crime, wrought as it was by way of an un-killable curiosity about the manias of our artistic heroes), I was happy to read Ronson's transcription of an acceptance speech for the D.W. Griffith Award pre-recorded by Stanley in order to avoid, well, all of us:
Anyone who has ever been privileged to direct a film also knows that although it can be like trying to write War and Peace in a bumper car in an amusement park, when you finally get it right, there are not many joys in life that can equal the feeling.
 photo of a subway station in New York taken by Kubrick in 1946

4.1.14

2014

More opportunities than ever to do the things I say I want/need/ought to do. But when you're on a two-week holiday all you want is to revolt against schedules, those hard metal stakes that so often cause the tent of your life to capsize instead of standing upright. You're left with deflated parachute material and wet dirt clods.

Always excuses with me! Not just with me, I realize. I also realize I'm productive generally and often take for granted all the books and articles I read; the volunteering I do; the people I'm meeting and with whom I'm corresponding, most often via email, increasingly through handwritten letters; the various projects I'm working on (not including my manuscript, despite much self-cajoling); the thinking, talking, dancing, dreaming.

Did you know I want to have a small house - a repurposed garage, portable, powered by sunlight - and live in the Pacific Northwest? It will be one big room, with a loft framing a triangular big-paned window where our bed will be. Shelving for books will line all the walls and the majority of any storage we have will be for the rest of them, and vinyl. And plants wherever we can stuff them.

Also: to Ph.D. or not to Ph.D. - that is the elementary question, My Dear Watson.

What's more, I miss gardening, and have grown fully sick-and-tired of the construction site next door. I have a few potted plants on the steps that lead to our front door and one (ailing) succulent on the sill in our bathroom, but this seems hardly enough. If not for the cats, who simply cannot be deterred from ransacking any thing in their path, there would be plants lining the bases of the windows, plants on the side desk next to the telemodulator and on the kitchen table. Hell, I'd put a plant in the kitchen sink if I thought that Omar would mind his own feline business.

1:46 PM on the second-to-last day of my vacation...I think I should go back to reading Blind Assassin.

1.12.13

two knots in my neck

I know that I hold tension in my neck and shoulders, and that this is why I've had chronic aches for the past five months. How lovely it would be to go once weekly to the massage parlor, or to attend yoga like I know I should (especially since it's free and in the park), or to fully cast aside the persistent thoughts of illness and permanent discomfort.

Just this morning I have realized that I am also now being submerged in a deep nostalgia for the East Coast. The Pacific knows nothing of that cold driving wind that comes off the Atlantic; the ashen marine layer that hovers over Los Angeles only assembles a few times a month, and the rain even less, although I've heard people saying that we are approaching/are in a "wet season." Perhaps Ohio, Illinois, and New York have forever spoiled my sense of "inclement" weather.

What am I to do with this persistent depression? I know it's been here for a little while now, and logically so (I suppose). It's that sadly familiar anti-social turn, that retreat to my apartment and my apartment alone most nights, that daily feeling of unrest and dis-ease that causes me to feel as though I'm running in place, going nowhere but downward through layers of dirt and stone.

Despite all my reading, writing, volunteering, running, biking, cooking, cleaning, gardening, movie-ing, working, researching, and on, I feel stagnant and feverish, like I'm not accomplishing a damn thing and perhaps never have or will. Not if I go on aching, not if I go on obsessing like this. It does not matter if what I feel corresponds with what is factually true about my current life situation because perception, driven by mercurial thought, always (initially) overrides concrete reality. Whatever that may really be.

I am in a better place, however, than I have been these last few months. It's just that I woke up three or four times last night and woke up this morning feeling simply saturated with malaise and doubt. What do I do when I can no longer retreat into myself at night, during sleep? At least I can say that I've been dreaming again.

16.11.13

wire-cut

I see them in cages all the time, mostly in my mind, through fog: the pads of their feet made raw by the rusted wire of their bankrupt houses, their spines forcibly contorted to fit right-angles.

Because of this knowledge I did not know if I would be able to sit through last night's west-coast premiere of Ghosts. Even at the previews I felt myself sinking into the pit of the theatre chair, my hands cupped at my ears. That very first minute with that very first enormous eye and the procession of eyes to follow I bent over as if to wretch, my hand a cast iron claw at my mouth, trails of iceblock tears shining through the dark.

The gaze you can never un-know:


I wailed to my husband as we drove home through the empty dustbowl streets of Los Angeles. I hurt, I hurt, how can we, they scream and they cry in the fur huts low to the ground, the cemented crates. As if he - we, I - had not already known, and this, apart from any intellectualizing or critical debate, is why it matters to be so shockingly reminded that my knowledge can never be complete enough to integrate and empathize with their suffering because I will never know it firsthand. To witness can only be to see.

The fact that I cannot understand and further cannot speak to the fantastical misery of life as an other animal, forcibly born to die for the desire of my own species, horrifies and humbles me all the same. Like I said, you cannot un-know, and many of us who also fought against that will to ignorance (the favorite worn-in armchair of those whose comfort remains undisturbed, and deliberately so) must also live with the weight of an uneven and violent knowledge of our selves and theirs.

But I do know that these violences coalesce so nicely: the power of the will of man, who grants himself all the power (and it is usually the power of rightness, of being always right, thereby being owed something from every thing and every one), none of which really exists.

All this wonderful weight and hatred and hunger to be molded and re-cast - for the rest of my life - as a will not only to witness but to move to strike against an exploitative hatred the size of our planet.

12.10.13

lick lick lick



7:00 AM on a Saturday morning and I was already up a half-hour ago, maybe more, listening to Spex as he got ready for a day of filming. Open-and-shut of multiple skew-hinged doors. The crrrrrk of the lid of the cat food as he pulled it back, saying, "Get down, get back, damn it." Our cats meowling and gurgling through a strain of purrs.

I sit cross-legged on the couch and write this, after having eaten cereal without milk (because we had none left and no fruit either) and one block of dark chocolate. Omar leans on my shoulder. The morning light that comes in through the front row of windows is a different gradient than the light I see in the distance that dusts the hills with mustard-seed yellow.

The sound of being alone in the bottom-half of a duplex on a hill early on a weekend morning: breath and static and the crunch in my neck.

2.10.13

i have to say it aloud

You see, the headaches are still here, I wake up in the morning and there are nodes above each eye and at the base of my head that run down through my neck and into my shoulders, and what the fuck am I supposed to do? Painkillers perhaps could help more than I allow but I refuse to become over-reliant and then, inevitably, take too many. Hangover headaches from over-the-counter pain management pills. So, how do I help myself? Is it truly the strain in my neck and in the middle-right of my upper back? A pinched nerve, too long on insufficient mattresses, poor posture, days and days on days spent in front of that fucking cyber-rectangle called a desktop at work? Or maybe my diet. Too much: peanut butter, bananas, nuts, soy? Not enough of something? If history tells me anything then perhaps I am still (rather unbelievably for the cosmos' sake) too stressed, anxious, for it to register in any physical capacity other than these migraines that magically transform into tension headaches that roll in like storm clouds toward the lakeshore. Always mild, oftentimes very mild, and I've even had a few weeks where I barely thought about it if at all, they'd improved so much - this has gone on for, oh, I'd say a full three months now - and I find myself angry about having seen the neurologist, family physician, phlebotomist, eye doctor, chiropractor, massage therapist, and yes even dermatologist (a witch's curse on plastic surgery and surgeons and surgery centers) to try and narrow it down. In hopes of finding some answer, however small.


And as I flirt with hypochondria and do my best to shelve these obsessive-compulsive tendencies of mine I think of months, years from now, when perhaps these aches will remain (it's possible, after all, right, right?), I become all the angrier still, and even sad, because, well, it does seem to me that perhaps one can never just be happy in health, that there is always one thing or a host of things at once that come and go in succession and are unrelated or perhaps may be all interrelated. And what can you do?

What can I do?

Except to write about it. Say it aloud. Name my fear and unease. Call it for what it is and never deny its prevalence in my thoughts, or how it affects my attitude about any given day or other non-health-related things that do happen. All of this does not lessen the sting, the dull and constant ache, and nor do I think a change of perspective about any (persistent) physical malady will somehow, as if by magic, put to rights the insult that ill-health is for someone who takes pains to be fit and consume consciously.

But, yes, I am comforted by this, my ability to lay it down in type, to say it to Nick and not in fear but in certitude and sometimes through a veil of tears. Logic - so fleeting but a great comfort in its constant return. Do I truly believe I will have these headaches for the rest of my life? No, no, not really, not rationally. Do I know that there are those who do live with chronic or cyclic or recurring headaches? Yes.

I just refuse to accept for myself anything less than I deserve - which is whatever will contribute to my happiness, to my being productive and always on the move, to my love of the now and my un-muddled positivity about my future as a wife, a writer, a mind.

17.8.13

acquisitions


on preston avenue

Omar. Always trying to nudge his way under the crook of my arm, always sneaking one paw at a time onto my lap, working slower than the California sunset.

I have been telling everyone that here there exists so much more color. The sandblasted houses seem to squat tiredly in the dust and dirt, faded turquoise and melon and carnation pink. Much dead grass but grass, here, is a falsehood, a lie, almost traitorous. This arid land.

And, you know, the way people smile around here, with mouths full of teeth and lips pushed up and out.

I met a man named Robert who part-owns the tiniest and sweetest organic produce market I know of and he asked about the book in my hands. Immediately beforehand he dumped watery plant refuse over the greenery out front of his shop and it left the sidewalk smelling deliciously rotten, muddy. George Saunders, I explained; In Persuasion Nation, first I've read of him, seeing as the Edendale Library lacked 10th of December, which I find is okay because of how I am devouring this collection of short stories about a near and alternate future, with dog-puppets who castrate themselves and hang themselves from the clothesline, with advertisement-as-law.

All of the empty space in this new apartment should be full up with succulents, knick-knacks, and incense by the time I am through. No telling when. Adriana wants to go to the new Downtown Los Angeles Flea with me the last Sunday of this month, where I am certain too much money will be spent on glass jars and figurines. Not to mention pots for plants and magnets.

I admit freely that I spent damn near thirty dollars on a Chicago-style deep dish vegan pizza - next time, remember to ask about the topping tax - but there remains no lingering guilt or anxiety about that money which I no longer have because I never wanted it in the first place, and why not spend it on things to make me happy?

The Asian and Mexican markets provide more kitsch than much else (except for coconut drinks and shoddily packaged raisins and almonds).

But yesterday was the Echo Park Farmer's Market in a parking lot behind La Guadalupana and again I felt so spoiled: pita chips, avocado hummus, dried figs, black and pinto beans, vegan mole with free tortilla-chip samples, the sweetest strawberries.

When Spex finally arrives this Wednesday it will be one of the best afternoons on record. I will forget anything else. Two months has proven long enough to begin to forget what it means to be married, to have been crafting something of a life with the best friend you have. So he and I will begin immediately to walk through days so washed out with the idyllic California summertime sun and very slowly forget about that mean and awful distance.

25.7.13

this way

Ohio Miscellany:

Three-legged country Pug, pink slug-tongue yo-yoing through breaths like a motor sputtering, leashless and jumping in triangular shapes at my feet midway through a morning run

unicorn cyst excised and brought out to air, held up to sterile light: the size of premature grape with a whole dug out, skin brain-veined and pink and fatty, intestinal coin purse so formerly full of rotted cheese yellowed and thick with pus

O'Brien, McCarthy, Borges, Bradbury and on to Le Guin, Murakami, Mapplethorpe's Smith

echinacea for immunity, mint and lemongrass leaves for sleeping calm

and hydroxyzine as-needed for anxiety that lightning-rods, waterfalls its way from crown to gut in cold prickles that burst forth in acid insect wings

"[...]my commitment to write, out of the space of 'illness,' about eating abnormally and the melancholy of the modern 'feminine' self, to forsake immobility for bold movement."

gone gone gone the ache now only far and distant leaden steps through mud sucking and hissing in protest of that oily,

that tar-and-feathered disappearance.

Karin Stack, "Hair Stories"